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How To Marry Smart: A Divorce Attorney's Advice on How to Tell The Winners From the Losers When Choosing Your Spouse
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Choosing a spouse is the most important decision you'll ever make — and most people walk into it blind.
After more than thirty five years of practicing family law, attorney Robert Busch, has seen the same heartbreaking pattern repeat itself: couples who were deeply “in love” but completely unprepared for the realities of marriage.
In "How to Marry Smart," Busch pulls back the curtain on the hidden issues, overlooked red flags, and unasked questions that quietly destroy relationships. This isn’t a book about finding someone who likes the same music or movies you do. It’s a practical, eye‑opening guide to understanding who you’re really building a life with — before you say “I do.”
Drawing from decades inside the courtroom and countless conversations with couples at every stage of their relationships, Busch offers a clear, compassionate roadmap for making one of life’s biggest decisions with confidence instead of guesswork.
Inside, you’ll discover:
• The character traits that predict long-term happiness — or long-term conflict
• How to spot financial, emotional, and lifestyle red flags early
• Why “compatibility” isn’t enough (and what actually matters more)
• The truth about communication styles, ambition, family dynamics, and personal habits
• How past relationships, unresolved trauma, or hidden behaviors can impact your future
• The essential questions every couple should ask before getting engaged
Whether you’re dating, engaged, or simply wanting to choose wisely next time, this book gives you the clarity, tools, and courage to make an informed, intelligent, and life‑changing decision.
If you want to avoid unnecessary heartache — and dramatically increase your chances of a strong, healthy, lasting marriage — this book is your essential guide.
After more than thirty five years of practicing family law, attorney Robert Busch, has seen the same heartbreaking pattern repeat itself: couples who were deeply “in love” but completely unprepared for the realities of marriage.
In "How to Marry Smart," Busch pulls back the curtain on the hidden issues, overlooked red flags, and unasked questions that quietly destroy relationships. This isn’t a book about finding someone who likes the same music or movies you do. It’s a practical, eye‑opening guide to understanding who you’re really building a life with — before you say “I do.”
Drawing from decades inside the courtroom and countless conversations with couples at every stage of their relationships, Busch offers a clear, compassionate roadmap for making one of life’s biggest decisions with confidence instead of guesswork.
Inside, you’ll discover:
• The character traits that predict long-term happiness — or long-term conflict
• How to spot financial, emotional, and lifestyle red flags early
• Why “compatibility” isn’t enough (and what actually matters more)
• The truth about communication styles, ambition, family dynamics, and personal habits
• How past relationships, unresolved trauma, or hidden behaviors can impact your future
• The essential questions every couple should ask before getting engaged
Whether you’re dating, engaged, or simply wanting to choose wisely next time, this book gives you the clarity, tools, and courage to make an informed, intelligent, and life‑changing decision.
If you want to avoid unnecessary heartache — and dramatically increase your chances of a strong, healthy, lasting marriage — this book is your essential guide.