I Thought About It, and No: Choosing a Life Without Kids

What happens when women start telling the unfiltered truth about choosing a life without kids? This book.

I Thought About It, and No is the unapologetic celebration of women who have chosen or are still considering a life outside of motherhood. Part memoir, part chorus of voices, this book speaks to every woman who’s been pressured, doubted, or dismissed for daring to imagine a full life without kids.

With humor, honesty, and raw candor, Stephanie Johnston shares her own story alongside women from all ages and walks of life, proving that the childfree choice isn’t selfish, sad, or strange. It’s simply human.

Inside you’ll discover:

• Honest reflections that cut through stigma and pressure, making space for pride and joy
• Emotional truths about relationships, identity, freedom, and self-discovery
• A reminder that you belong, you are enough, and you’re living a life worth celebrating

For the ones who’ve chosen, the ones still considering, and the allies who want to get it—this book is a mirror, not a map. Bold, warm, and fiercely validating, it will leave you laughing, crying, and maybe even texting your best friend: read this too.